Wednesday, January 22, 2020

Keepin' It Real - Part 5

The transportation strike is over!  It lasted 46 days!!!  Moving on...

Last month, we received a certified letter in the mail that we need to go and present to the Ministere de la Education Nationale what we are doing for Edy as far as homeschooling goes.  Because I am not knew to this dog and pony show, and I know that the French government likes their paperwork, I have been busy photocopying samples of Edy's work and writing up a six page document on all she has done academically and seen physically while here.  In an effort to delay the additional work I need to be doing to prepare for Thursday's meeting, I decided to compose a blog post of things I find interesting in France.  This post will be told in 10 pictures.

1.  The French are known for their baguettes and their pastries, but little is often talked about the butter.  That is, until you have lived here and consume enormous amounts of this creamy deliciousness.  Recently, I had been chatting with a few expats, who live here now, and they commented that every time they go back to the United States, they freeze some French butter and take it back with them.  I definitely plan to do it.

2.  The light switches for most bathrooms are on the outside of the room.  This way you turn on the switch before you enter.  It keeps you from fumbling to find it.  

3.  Paris really understands and takes advantage of the right to free speech. Almost every weekend there is a demonstration of some kind scheduled.  There are police ready and available to keep these as peaceful as necessary.  That being said, there are some groups in town that try to take advantage of these demonstrations and take it to a new level, but setting things on fire or overturning things.  Luckily the police are already present with their riot gear and tear gas.  This might all sound scary to an outsider but to us, it is now just normal.  Plus, there are no worries about fire arms being discharged because people here don't have guns.  It all just feels much safer.  In addition to weekly demonstrations, if people want to make a point about something, they make signs and glue them on buildings.  They take A4 paper, print a letter on each page, and use a can of glue to paste it on the wall. 

4.  Twice a year, all the stores in Paris have sales.  The last for about 4-6 weeks.  Everything in the store is marked with a colored sticker indicating if it is 20%, 30%, 40%, 50% or even 70% off.  The windows are also marked with the words "Soldes," which means sale.

5.  The sidewalks are not just for people in Paris, they are also for the occasional moped or motorcycle.  You will often find them driving right up to the ATM or to the door of the place they are visiting, with no regard to it being a sidewalk.  The irony is that nothing makes a French person more upset than a bike or an electric scooter on the sidewalk.  A motorcycle on the other hand...

6.  There are brown posts all along the sidewalks in Paris.  These posts create a barrier of where the sidewalk ends and the road begins.  Some posts also have a white top.  This indicates where one can cross the street.  Will likes to try and "jump" these posts, much to the horror of his father.  He has yet to "injure" himself.

7.  Parisians are not afraid to park any where and run into a store.  This is my favorite one.  I see it everyday, outside my bedroom window, or when trying to cross the street.  Who knows if this person is running into the Post Office, getting a haircut, or picking up some dry cleaning.  I can't imagine doing this in the United States?

8.  Most building have an outdoor keypad that allows you to get inside the building.  This is not the place you ring the person you are visiting.  That is inside.  Instead, when you visit someone, or have someone visit you, you give them the outdoor key code.  Once inside the main door, there is another door that is locked.  There they will find a place to ring the person they are visiting in order to be let up.  What is unique about this is that this number is given out to so many people.  In addition to the mail person having it, any workers you have coming to do work in the apartment have it - electrician, gas meter reader, cable person, etc.  Ours code is changing this week.  I wonder how many people will get locked out!

9.  No one walks around here drinking coffee in a to-go mug or even in a disposable cup, unless you are a tourist visiting the several Starbucks around town.  The reason is that Parisians see having coffee as an experience, not an accessory.  They would rather enjoy their coffee at a cafe, while visiting with someone, or taking time to read or do work.

10. I am not sure if I mentioned this earlier in the year but I was again reminded of it when I needed to buy Will a new Math notebook.  Almost all notebooks here are not lined the way we are used to in the United States.  They are either graph paper or lined like the one below.  While this is excellent for math, it proves a bit trickier for Edy and Will with writing.  Luckily friends have supplied us with both wide-ruled and college-ruled notebooks for our homeschooling.

On that note, I am off to finish preparing for my big meeting on Thursday.  While it was only Edy they are calling in to interview, I am also preparing a large amount of paper for Will as well.  This is to show them in advance, so they won't call upon us again in the future.  

Au revoir!
Betsy



Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Friends and Family Make the Holidays Special!

We were fortunate enough to have several visitors over the holidays.  We were lucky in that it kept us from being too homesick.  We loved sharing our home and city with our friends.

The first visitors we had were the Arnolds!  Katie, Carl, Amelia, and Elouise spent three days with us before heading on to Florence.  Lucky for them, they had been to Paris before so we could be much more relaxed in what we showed them.  We enjoyed our neighborhood, including our Wednesday morning market, as well as some of our favorite shops - Monoprix anyone?  We also got around very slowly via the overcrowded buses.  (Remember, the never-ending strike?)  Edy really got to sharpen her tour-guiding skills by leading the Arnold around by herself.
Katie and I smiling outside the "expensive" part of our neighborhood!
Off to the market where Will and Carl found a fish head!
My favorite French man who swears everything is "the BEST!"
So good to see the Arnolds!
Will, Amelia, Edy, Elouise
Edy and Elouise reunited in a new city!
Just getting some exercise!
I am sure this was after they both slid down the railing behind them.
I believe these are the best macaroons around!
The Champs Elysees all lit up!
Friends who wear scarves together are friends for life.
Relaxing around the Christmas tree.
Thank you Arnolds for Will's new Lego set!
Why, yes, that Christmas tree is hanging from the glass dome!
Just enjoying a little lunch on the steps of The Opera Garnier.
Eloise
Amelia
A pyramid of girls!
Two of these girls are enjoying their first Amorinos.
Katie's first flower cone!
A little light reading from Shakespeare and Company.
So many girls!
All ready for a five course French dinner!
But first, a champagne toast!
Aunt Rachel and Will
Everyone looks full - 3 courses left!
After all five courses, a facemark was in order.
We were also lucky in that Jeff's sister, Rachel, came for a few days as well.  She was more than eager to let her favorite nephew lead her around Paris.  She got quite her fill at Les Invalides, the army museum, accompanied by a trip to Five Guys on the Champs Elysees.  Edy and Will also took her to see the Christmas Market in La Defence, where they went up the Grand Arch and played a few rounds of foosball.  Rachel is always game for movies so we walked to two different theaters, while she was here, to watch the new Star Wars movie, "Rise of the Skywalker" and "Knives Out."  We were grateful she could come spend time with us.
Ready for "Rise of the Skywalker!"
Can't beat this view on the walk home from "Knives Out."
A day in La Defence!
Can you spot Will?
After about four days on our own over Christmas, we welcomed our next guests, the Tracys!  John, Amanda, Elizabeth, Noah, and John came to spend ten days with us for their first overseas family adventure! They were so patient and adventurous, even with the transit strike.  And they never were able to ride the allusive 52 bus...

Here is a  top ten list of highlights with them - in no particular order:

1.  The amazing light show at the Jardin de Plantes.
2.  Braving the height of the Eiffel Tower.  Luckily there was champagne at the top.
3.  John managing to cook a delicious dinner in our small Parisian kitchen.
4.  Chocolate body scrub with Amanda at Lush in La Marais.
5.  Girls only shopping trip = we love Zara!
6.  Boys only trip to La Mans to see the museum and the race track.
7.  Watching the Parisian New Year's Eve Celebration on TV!
8.  Endless rounds of Skip-Bo and 5 Crowns.
9.  Adult only dinner at La Gare, while the kids stayed home and watched movies.
10.  Sending kids out for endless baguettes.

Welcome to Paris Elizabeth, John, and Noah!
A second Christmas with the Tracys!
Matching R2D2 pajamas for the boys. 
Matching leisure suits for the girls!
Visiting the lock bridge and playing our favorite game of "guess where the boats will come out."
Best one yet!
The Arnold family joined us for a few days at the end of their time in Italy - Edy, Eloise, and Elizabeth.
By putting Amelia in charge of all seven kids, we were able to have an evening out.
My girls!
My favorite photo!
While some might vacation in warm, tropical places. we chose to lounge
by a pond in the Jardin de Tuileries.
Louvre!
What is best to do after the Louvre?  Why jump on trampolines!
An ocean themed light display at the Jardin de Plantes.
Finally, a photo of the kids!

While the moms went off for massages, the rest of the crew went up to Sacre Coeur.
New Year's Eve!
John made dinner for us on New Years Eve!
Happy New Year!
Dessert for the kids...
John "lighting" the dessert for the adults! 
Voila!
It's 2020!  Let's make some noise!
Love you Amanda!
With the strike, we couldn't easily get to the light show
at the Arc de Triumph, so we watched it on tv instead.
Someone needed to finish the champagne!
And the following day, the much anticipated paper airplane war!
We are about to go up there!
This is only from the second floor.
In the elevator on the way to the top floor!
Here we go!
Cheers!
Awe, these two - John and Amanda!
Girls' day! 
Palais Royal!
Elizabeth!
While the girls shopped, the boys went to Chartres and La Mans.
La Mans' trophy 
La Mans' race track
Having fun at a nearby park.
Trying the Lime scooters in the park, where there was a speed restriction.


On our way to the Chocolate Museum, we ran into this street.
Ready for all you can eat chocolate?
I know what they will be having for dessert.
A wonderful night out without the kids!
Thanks John and Amanda for joining us in Paris.
P.S.  Next time we need to remember to shut the freezer door.
P.S.S. There's the 52 bus!
When you host people for many days at at time, you really get to know them.  They also really get to see your quirks and all of your warts.  We were grateful that all the families that have visited with us have been patient, kind, and helpful.  In addition to this year being a time for just the four of us to bond, it has also been a year to share with others our new home.  We have had some great learning experiences in sharing a 72 square meter space with guests.  It has been a great way to practice compromising, patience, and listening to what others need and want.  I would have to say our kids have been exceptional at that.

Now that the holidays are over, and the guests are gone, we can't seem to gear up to our same level of adventure and exploring that we had come to know and love in 2019.  I am giving ourselves some time to recharge, sleep in, and refocus on how we want the next 5.5 months to go.  I know it will come, but taking time to rest is good too.

Thank you all for visiting, whether in person, or virtually!
Betsy